The Thomas Fam

The Thomas Fam

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Cocoa Beach 2012

What Happens in Florida stays in Florida


Cocoa Beach is a sleepy little town outside of Orlando on the Atlantic coast of Florida.  We have been going to Cocoa Beach for as long as I can remember.  My grandparents got a condo down there in the early eighties, and as much as they loved each of the families coming and visiting them in the months that they were down there, they decided they needed one more! The downstairs condo was added to the mix.  There are so many things that are delightful about this place.  It is not overly commercialized (although it gets more and more so every year).  The routine of getting there is easy and familiar, like a holiday tradition (fly, ride the tram, get the bags, drive to the coast, open the shutters, race to the sliding doors to see if the view from the porch is still glorious. It never disappoints, every time it's perfect.


And although, somethings that we love about this place are long gone, there are new things, now that we are bringing our own family here that we are growing to love.  Maybe I won't eat chips and cheese on the porch and play 20 questions any more, but my boys will and that delights me. 

Just as there is the ritual of getting to Cocoa Beach there are certain things that we do there every year.  We always go to Ron Jon's Surf Shop, a completed overpriced gimicky store with Tshirts and beach gear that have become iconic in the area and even around the world.  The building isn't what it used to be - but the tropical stucco and gaudy posters everywhere grow on you. We also used to go to a place called Lobster Shanty. 
Lobster Shanty used to be called Pelican Point, and every year we would get dressed up (well, beach-dressed up, i.e. no flip flops) and go to this restaurant.  There is a koi pond, hush puppies and an amazing salad bar.  After dinner we would head out to the dock to feed the catfish and the birds and look for porpoises.  Over the years the food has become increasingly mediocre, but there were still things we loved about this joint.  There was the metallic octagon plates that were chilled to perfection at the salad bar and that alone kept me coming back.  Well, this year, Jack Baker decided he didn't need the salad bar or the fantastic chilly plates.  So, next year - we begin our search for our new ritual dinner spot. In the mean time a few pictures to commemorate our last outing to, what will always be, Pelican Point. 

Koi Pond

Feeding the fish

Thomas family - Sayonara Pelican Point

More fish feeding

Another activity that is a ritual in Cocoa Beach is a trip to the Manatees stadium. Its minor league baseball at its best! Outdoor Space Coast Stadium doesn't disappoint and they even have fireworks if you are lucky enough to be there around the 4th.  This year, was even more special because our Luke loves loves loves baseball.  He was delighted to be there and was excited and attentive for most of the game.  This year the manatees played the Palm Beach Cardinals.  I don't remember who won but the game was sure fun to watch.

Andrew and cousin Jake

View from our seats

Uncle Bob and Cousin Jake

Grandma and Grandpa even come to the ballpark!

He loved.

So much fun!
Another thing about the condos in cocoa beach is that they are really not far from Disney.  People always say they want to wait and take their kids to Disney when they are older and can enjoy it - and I get that.  Disney is an enormous undertaking - flying there, driving there, staying there, eating there, etc.  That is whats great about our set up - it is a 45 minute drive.  So, even if the day is a total bust, no harm, no foul - pack up and drive 45 minutes home and try again next year.  Billy and I decided that this year was our year to try it with the boys.  And boy, are we glad we did.  I probably got choked up 10 times while we were there seeing the boys in complete utopia and I wanted to hug every employee I saw who made our entire experience perfection from beginning to end. 

We were already excited by the entrance

"Mickey's House"


Brave Andrew kissing Minnie - meeting Minnie & Mickey was easily the high-point!

Boys got some ears - of course! And they still wear them!!

And then there was the drive home.

We were still on Disney property at this point

There used to be the occasional shuttle launch or rocket launch from Cape Canaveral that you could watch from the beach or the balcony   Epic rumbling would rattle the sand and if it was nighttime, near blinding light - it was an awesome experience. Well, now that the space program is in a tailspin, the chances of us seeing a launch have dropped off to say the least.  So this year we had to settle for Air Force One roaring down the coastline.  It is an awesome sight.  My brother has pictures of AF1 in flight, I snapped this one of it parked on the tarmac at Patirck's Air Force Base.

This pic does not do the size justice!

This is a new tradition that Billy and I have started - every year we are going to snap a pic of our kiddos on the rock outside the pool.  It will be fun to see them change!!

2012

2012

These are last years'

2011

2011

And then of course there is just the fun of being here.  Going to the beach, Grandpa fishing, Grandma in the pool, our cousins being with us, "blast-offing" with daddy, good naps,  family time - the list goes on. 









Glorious, glorious Cocoa Beach - see you next year, and all the years after ...


Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Resolutions


"Sudden resolutions, like the sudden rise of mercury in a barometer, indicate little else than the variability of the weather." - David Hare

When I used to be disciplined enough to work out at the gym regularly, I used to hate turning into the parking lot a day or two after the first of the year and having to settle in to circle for a spot for a half an hour. I would go in and hand my card to the girl, and then judge all of the people in there who would be gone in 2 weeks. The people who spent a fortune enrolling and hiring trainers and adding on members, to make themselves feel better about what they were unlikely to do regardless of what month it happened to be. 

 And while I still get mildly irritated at the memory of this, I can identify with wanting to be a better person, I just think there is a more subtle, resolute way to go about it.

I am not going to draw up a laundry list of things I should have been doing all year long, but now plan to do with such diligence and stick-to-it-ness that it would put Prometheus to shame. Not this year. This year I am going to baby-step it. My resolutions this year will focus on a shift in behavior, not a pipe dream of an unrealistic outcome - because after all, who wants to be set up to fail?

I don't plan to lose weight this year, but I do resolve to be healthier.
I don't plan to stick to a budget and update it weekly, but I do plan to buy less things.
I don't plan to see my girlfriends regularly or set up play dates on a regimented schedule, but I do plan to be intentional about making time for those who mean the most.
I don't plan to be the best parent, but I do plan to have more patience and tell my boys I love them more. After all, they will go to school one day, and as we all learned this year, no one is safe, anywhere.

And along that same thread, when I was thinking about those poor parents in Connecticut, and what advice they would give me if they could - I can't begin to speculate. I have heard some amazing stories about random acts of kindness that people are doing in honor of the memory of those little ones, and it is truly touching. I decided I would think about 10 things I can do better as a mom, and when I do them I will think why I am doing it.

Allison and Emilie - Take more pictures
Benjamin and Avielle - Hug them every morning and every night
Jessica Rekos and Caroline Previdi - Not say no to go fish
Noah and Jack - Tell them 5 things good things they do every day (at bed time)
Grace and James - Keep my promises
Jesse and Chase - Remember to pray with them
Catherine and Madeline - Blog more often, so I can remember how wonderful this time is
Dylan and Ana - Slow down and cherish these years at home with them
Josephine and Olivia - Set aside time with each boy by himself
Daniel and Charlotte - Say yes to "one more story" at least once a week 

Love my two boys.





 As far as blogging more often, I did a terrible job blogging in 2012, so this year I plan to carve out more time, to log the memory of how happy I am with little boys underfoot. And in the spirit of all good New Year's Resolutions .... I plan to start tomorrow.